refactor(channelserver): remove Channels fallbacks, use Registry as sole cross-channel API

main.go always sets both Channels and Registry together, making the
Channels fallback paths dead code. This removes:

- Server.Channels field from the Server struct
- 3 if/else fallback blocks in handlers_session.go (replaced with
  Registry.FindChannelForStage, SearchSessions, SearchStages)
- 1 if/else fallback block in handlers_guild_ops.go (replaced with
  Registry.NotifyMailToCharID)
- 3 method fallbacks in sys_channel_server.go (WorldcastMHF,
  FindSessionByCharID, DisconnectUser now delegate directly)

Updates anti-patterns.md #6 to "accepted design" — Session struct is
appropriate for this game server's handler pattern, and cross-channel
coupling is now fully routed through the ChannelRegistry interface.

main.go

@@ -291,7 +291,6 @@ func main() {
 
 		registry := channelserver.NewLocalChannelRegistry(channels)
 		for _, c := range channels {
-			c.Channels = channels
 			c.Registry = registry
 		}
 	}