feat(i18n): per-session language preference and !lang command

Phase A plumbing for #188. Adds a users.language column (migration
0022), UserRepo.GetLanguage/SetLanguage, and Session.Lang()/SetLang
accessors so future phases can resolve localized content per session
instead of falling back to the server-wide config.Language.

The preference is loaded from the DB on login and persisted via a new
!lang <en|jp|fr|es> chat command that shows the current language when
called without an argument, validates the code (case-insensitive), and
replies in the newly selected language so the switch is visible
immediately. An empty stored value falls back to config.Language.

sys_language.go exposes getLangStringsFor(code) as the new dispatch
primitive; getLangStrings(server) is now a thin wrapper so existing
callers keep working unchanged. isSupportedLang + supportedLangs keep
the !lang validator in sync with the dispatcher.

Localized quest/scenario content and per-session i18n lookups in
existing handlers are deliberately out of scope for phase A — this
commit ships only the plumbing so it can be reviewed and deployed
independently.

config/config.go

@@ -446,6 +446,7 @@ func registerDefaults() {
 		{Name: "Ban", Enabled: false, Description: "Ban/Temp Ban a user", Prefix: "ban"},
 		{Name: "Timer", Enabled: true, Description: "Toggle the Quest timer", Prefix: "timer"},
 		{Name: "Playtime", Enabled: true, Description: "Show your playtime", Prefix: "playtime"},
+		{Name: "Language", Enabled: true, Description: "Show or change your preferred language (en|jp|fr|es)", Prefix: "lang"},
 	})
 
 	// Courses