feat(i18n): per-session language preference and !lang command

Phase A plumbing for #188. Adds a users.language column (migration
0022), UserRepo.GetLanguage/SetLanguage, and Session.Lang()/SetLang
accessors so future phases can resolve localized content per session
instead of falling back to the server-wide config.Language.

The preference is loaded from the DB on login and persisted via a new
!lang <en|jp|fr|es> chat command that shows the current language when
called without an argument, validates the code (case-insensitive), and
replies in the newly selected language so the switch is visible
immediately. An empty stored value falls back to config.Language.

sys_language.go exposes getLangStringsFor(code) as the new dispatch
primitive; getLangStrings(server) is now a thin wrapper so existing
callers keep working unchanged. isSupportedLang + supportedLangs keep
the !lang validator in sync with the dispatcher.

Localized quest/scenario content and per-session i18n lookups in
existing handlers are deliberately out of scope for phase A — this
commit ships only the plumbing so it can be reviewed and deployed
independently.

server/channelserver/lang_fr.go

@@ -39,6 +39,11 @@ func langFrench() i18n {
 	i.commands.timer.enabled = "Minuteur de quête activé"
 	i.commands.timer.disabled = "Minuteur de quête désactivé"
 
+	i.commands.lang.usage = "Utilisation : %s <en|jp|fr|es>"
+	i.commands.lang.invalid = "Langue inconnue %q. Prises en charge : en, jp, fr, es"
+	i.commands.lang.success = "Langue définie sur %s"
+	i.commands.lang.current = "Langue actuelle : %s"
+
 	i.commands.ravi.noCommand = "Aucune commande Raviente spécifiée !"
 	i.commands.ravi.start.success = "La Grande Chasse va commencer dans un instant"
 	i.commands.ravi.start.error = "La Grande Chasse a déjà commencé !"