feat(i18n): per-session language preference and !lang command

Phase A plumbing for #188. Adds a users.language column (migration
0022), UserRepo.GetLanguage/SetLanguage, and Session.Lang()/SetLang
accessors so future phases can resolve localized content per session
instead of falling back to the server-wide config.Language.

The preference is loaded from the DB on login and persisted via a new
!lang <en|jp|fr|es> chat command that shows the current language when
called without an argument, validates the code (case-insensitive), and
replies in the newly selected language so the switch is visible
immediately. An empty stored value falls back to config.Language.

sys_language.go exposes getLangStringsFor(code) as the new dispatch
primitive; getLangStrings(server) is now a thin wrapper so existing
callers keep working unchanged. isSupportedLang + supportedLangs keep
the !lang validator in sync with the dispatcher.

Localized quest/scenario content and per-session i18n lookups in
existing handlers are deliberately out of scope for phase A — this
commit ships only the plumbing so it can be reviewed and deployed
independently.

server/migrations/sql/0022_user_language.sql

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+-- Per-user preferred language for server-generated content (chat commands,
+-- mail templates, future localized quest/scenario text). NULL means "use the
+-- server default" (config.Language). See #188 (server-side multi-language
+-- support), phase A (plumbing).
+
+ALTER TABLE public.users
+    ADD COLUMN IF NOT EXISTS language TEXT;