feat: add SQLite support, setup wizard enhancements, and live dashboard

Add zero-dependency SQLite mode so users can run Erupe without
PostgreSQL. A transparent db.DB wrapper auto-translates PostgreSQL
SQL ($N placeholders, now(), ::casts, ILIKE, public. prefix,
TRUNCATE) for SQLite at runtime — all 28 repo files use the wrapper
with no per-query changes needed.

Setup wizard gains two new steps: quest file detection with download
link, and gameplay presets (solo/small/community/rebalanced). The API
server gets a /dashboard endpoint with auto-refreshing stats.

CI release workflow now builds and pushes Docker images to GHCR
alongside binary artifacts on tag push.

Key changes:
- common/db: DB/Tx wrapper with 6 SQL translation rules
- server/migrations/sqlite: full SQLite schema (0001-0005)
- config: Database.Driver field ("postgres" or "sqlite")
- main.go: SQLite connection with WAL mode, single writer
- server/setup: quest check + preset selection steps
- server/api: /dashboard with live stats
- .github/workflows: Docker in release, deduplicate docker.yml

server/migrations/sqlite/0002_catch_up_patches.sql

@@ -0,0 +1,3 @@
+-- SQLite: no-op. The consolidated 0001_init.sql already includes all patch columns.
+-- This file exists so the migration version numbering stays in sync with PostgreSQL.
+SELECT 1;