feat: add SQLite support, setup wizard enhancements, and live dashboard

Add zero-dependency SQLite mode so users can run Erupe without
PostgreSQL. A transparent db.DB wrapper auto-translates PostgreSQL
SQL ($N placeholders, now(), ::casts, ILIKE, public. prefix,
TRUNCATE) for SQLite at runtime — all 28 repo files use the wrapper
with no per-query changes needed.

Setup wizard gains two new steps: quest file detection with download
link, and gameplay presets (solo/small/community/rebalanced). The API
server gets a /dashboard endpoint with auto-refreshing stats.

CI release workflow now builds and pushes Docker images to GHCR
alongside binary artifacts on tag push.

Key changes:
- common/db: DB/Tx wrapper with 6 SQL translation rules
- server/migrations/sqlite: full SQLite schema (0001-0005)
- config: Database.Driver field ("postgres" or "sqlite")
- main.go: SQLite connection with WAL mode, single writer
- server/setup: quest check + preset selection steps
- server/api: /dashboard with live stats
- .github/workflows: Docker in release, deduplicate docker.yml

server/setup/setup.go

@@ -23,6 +23,8 @@ func Run(logger *zap.Logger, port int) error {
 	r.HandleFunc("/api/setup/client-modes", ws.handleClientModes).Methods("GET")
 	r.HandleFunc("/api/setup/test-db", ws.handleTestDB).Methods("POST")
 	r.HandleFunc("/api/setup/init-db", ws.handleInitDB).Methods("POST")
+	r.HandleFunc("/api/setup/check-quests", ws.handleCheckQuests).Methods("GET")
+	r.HandleFunc("/api/setup/presets", ws.handlePresets).Methods("GET")
 	r.HandleFunc("/api/setup/finish", ws.handleFinish).Methods("POST")
 
 	srv := &http.Server{